It is completely understandable for parents to post stories, photos, and videos about their children on social networks because they are proud of their family and want to spread that joy and pride to their friends and relatives.

This is also quite helpful when parents feel less alone when receiving compliments and advice from friends. Being a parent myself, CyberPurify understands this.

However, the more you post about children, the greater the risk that bad guys will steal information and use it for bad purposes. This article will help you answer the question should I post my kids’ photos on Facebook break down 5 harms in posting about our kids on social media.

Should I post my kids’ photos on Facebook? 5 things you must know to keep your kids safe from dangers

Parents invade children’s privacy

According to Common Sense Media, around the age of 5, children begin to develop a sense of self and begin to become aware of how others see themselves. This means that your child may not notice what you share about him or her on social media now, but it does not mean that he/she will later.

As children get older, they care more about their privacy. The evidence is that children may begin to feel embarrassed about the photos/videos that parents post about them on social networks, especially funny pictures or those that expose their bodies like when children wear bikinis or are naked when they were newborns.

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Sharing the wrong kind of content on social media can also make kids feel like they have no ownership over their own bodies or values.

Parents’ social media posts can increase risks of children’s cyberbullying

Parents need to be concerned about how others judge the pictures/videos they share about their child on social media. They can use that information to mock, insult, and even bully your child as he or she gets older.

Once you have posted and shared online, there is no way for you to prevent others from saving, sharing again with others.

What happens when those comments are not positive? What if they just keep sharing? With the speed at which information spreads on the Internet today, it doesn’t take long for a picture to go from a family joke to a negative school joke.

Parents' social media posts can increase risks of children's cyberbullying

The ability to bully your child is not limited to the people you know. If you want to feel the ruthlessness of anonymous users on the Internet, you just have to check out the comments of children’s videos on YouTube.

What would your child think and feel if he or she felt that your social media “audience” was not responding well to your content? Will your child be influenced by these comments and try to change themselves in a negative way like eating disorders?

Parents’ social media posts may “attract” dangerous people

This is especially common with pictures of your baby taking a bath or pictures of your baby being naked as an infant.

Pictures and videos of children shared by parents on social media often appear on websites and forums devoted to child pornography. There was a case where a mother in Nashville tried to track down the identity of a stranger who shared a picture of her daughter and found a website of a man in China. On that page, she discovered photos of her daughter, along with many other pictures of other baby girls.

According to the Australian Children’s eSafety Commissioner, a website has posted at least 45 million images, half of which are pictures of children taken from social media accounts. The pictures capture the family’s daily activities but are accompanied by inappropriate comments.

In addition, when posting on social networks, you can inadvertently reveal sensitive information about your location, making it easy for bad guys to determine where your child lives, their schools, or playground locations.

Posting about your kids online could damage their futures

Once you share or post anything online, you have created a digital footprint and you have no control over that information. You can’t prevent anyone from taking a screenshot of your post and sending and sharing it with many others.

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This applies even if you delete the post. Many parents mistakenly believe that just deleting those pictures and videos from social networks will not cause any problems. This is not true because these materials can still exist in websites hosted on the Internet and on the social network servers.

So, look beyond that and consider how the images and stories you post can affect your child as he or she gets older, even as an adult.

Parents also need to think about how potential employers might react when they find certain sensitive childhood moments on social media. You should also consider whether your posts might influence your child if he or she later decides to be a public figure like politicians, actors, etc.?

Parents' social media posts can put children at risk of digital kidnapping

Parents’ social media posts can put children at risk of digital kidnapping

Digital kidnapping is a type of identity theft. This behavior occurs when a person saves a picture of a child from a social network and puts it back with a new name and identity, claiming the child is theirs.

There have been numerous examples of this behavior in recent years, including an incident in 2015 in which a stranger took a picture of an 18-month-old boy from a blogger’s (the child’s mother) and posted it on her Facebook profile as if he were her own son.

6 things to consider when sharing pictures of your children online

  • Ask your children’s opinions

The desire to share about the family on social media is completely understandable, but if you decide to share, don’t forget to ask your child if they are comfortable with this and listen to them.

  • Ask friends and family to limit posting photos or videos of your child
  • Choose your child’s pictures/videos carefully
  • No photos showing your children are naked or wear less clothes like bikini
  • Check privacy settings

Don’t forget that identity theft increases the risk as parents share more about their children, so be extremely careful with the privacy settings of these posts on our social media sites for example: for friends, preferably only to those close to you or people you actually know.

  • Be cautious with posts’ locations

Turn off location mode when posting content: You need to turn off all geotagging and geolocation and never post details about where you live or the places you and your kids frequently go there.

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